Understanding Communication Signals
Communication is more than just words. Research shows that up to 93% of communication effectiveness is determined by non-verbal cues. In this lesson, you'll learn to recognize and use both verbal and non-verbal signals to enhance your message.
Verbal Communication Components:
- Tone of Voice: The way you say something often matters more than what you say. A friendly tone can make criticism constructive, while a harsh tone can make praise seem insincere.
- Word Choice: Selecting precise, clear words prevents misunderstandings. Avoid jargon when speaking to non-experts.
- Pace and Rhythm: Speaking too fast can make you seem nervous or unreliable. Speaking too slowly can lose your audience's attention.
Non-Verbal Communication:
- Body Language: Your posture, gestures, and movements convey confidence, openness, or defensiveness.
- Facial Expressions: Your face reveals emotions you might not intend to show. Practice maintaining a neutral or positive expression during difficult conversations.
- Eye Contact: Appropriate eye contact builds trust and shows engagement, but too much can feel aggressive while too little seems untrustworthy.
- Personal Space: Respecting physical boundaries varies by culture but is crucial for comfortable communication.
Practical Exercise:
Record yourself having a conversation or giving a presentation. Watch it with the sound off first to observe your non-verbal cues, then listen without watching to evaluate your verbal communication. What do you notice?